Make it happen for you. Talk to acquaintances- make them friends. Smile at strangers. Start small. Stretch. Stretch your toes, your back- reach for the sky and then roll back down. Then reach again. Don’t stop. Think long and hard about what interests you. Boarding schools? Crime? Cupcakes? Go and buy a book about it. Read it, discuss it with someone. Buy a black diary. Write down everything you need to do for the day. Appointments, errands, meals, anything. No detail is too small or trivial. Push yourself, little by little. Start small. Make it happen for you.